Welcome to Asexualise Academysmile 

THE World's First Ever Online Training Centre And School For Asexuals And Asexuality! 

It's ace to have you here!

When you first hear of the term asexuality and you breathe a sigh of relief that finally you fit in somewhere and there really are people like you in the world, who can live, love, and be happy without sex, forever, whoop! Whoop! I can tell you from personal experience that it's truly life changing in an incredible way. For some it is an overwhelming feeling of joy and happiness, that you are finally free to be yourself in a world that is trying to force you to be someone you're not, and you feel a deep sense of relief that there is a way to break free of the reigns that have held you back in your life for so very long! But then you have the extreme problem of unravelling what it means to be truly asexual and how you are going to cope in this highly sexualised world with your newly found sexual orientation. This is where Asexualise Academy comes to your rescue. 

I know you have come here to find out all sorts of answers to the many questions you have buzzing around in your head about being asexual and asexuality! I know, because when I first discovered I am asexual, my mind was blow away by the many variations of asexuals, and I was frantically trying to wade through all the information just to make sense of where I fitted in. Thank goodness I was able to directly message a guy who was somewhat of an expert in asexuality, because he held in person asexual meetups in London. It's strange to think that now I organise my own in person meetups in my city, when I was a newbie in 2014, and never a group type of person in my past! Asexuality is a journey of discovery, of both yourself and your asexual life! And just like you, I am forever curious, questioning, and on the search to find out more, to understand both myself and other asexuals better. 

Asexuality is a such a huge spectrum of identities and sub identities that it can get overwhelming at times and then you have the added complication of having to survive and thrive in this highly sexualised world. As if trying to come to terms with your own asexuality and where you fit on the Asexual Spectrum, wasn't difficult enough, trying to deal with the reactions and objections to who you are, from others who just don't understand, is like a double whammy! And sometimes is takes the wind out of your sails and really hurts!

The good thing is, there is a large amount of knowledge and information about asexuality and being asexual, all over the internet, and there are thousands of asexuals around the globe, but how do you connect with, and meet those other asexuals? And how do you wade through all that knowledge that is thrown out there, to specifically pinpoint which is applicable to you and your own specific needs and situation? How do you shortcut your time to find out the exact strategies, know-how and knowledge, that will help you to survive, thrive and flourish, in this highly sexualised world?

If you are asking yourself these questions and more, you have come to the right place to get those answers! This site is the World's Very First Online Training Centre and School for Asexuals and Asexuality, giving you the skills you need to survive and thrive in this highly sexualised world! This site will have a range of courses for different aspects of asexuality and for asexuals across the spectrum! It will grow with you and for you!

It's so acetastic to have you here and I am excited to share with you all the skills, knowledge and know-how, I have learnt over the last 4 years since my discovery of being asexual in 2014, and prior to that in contrast, of being in sexual relationships that I would rather not have been in but I honestly thought there was no one else in the world like me, who could love and live forever without sex! Who didn't need, want, or ever get the urge for it! Despite having it in the past because I thought I had to! Sad really, that I felt I needed to do that. Even a counsellor told me I must have sex in order to keep good guy! It really sucked! Thank goodness there is Google and that is how I stumbled upon the term asexuality and discovered a community of people just like me, who can love and live forever without sex, and are very happy to do so. Love does exist without sex, asexuals can live and love without sex, because that is normal and natural to us!

Asexuality is important, as it affects a recorded 1% of the population, so it is imperative that we spread the word, get educated, and be educated about it, and the more, the better! So this site is for anyone who is asexual or who wants to learn more about asexuality - maybe because you have a spouse, sibling, or friend, who you just really want to understand better and are prepared to make waves to do that, because they're worth it!

Whatever it took you to get here, I am so very glad you came. So be prepared, to learn more, know more, do more, and really know, that it's more than okay to be asexual, it's ace!!!

So how do you navigate this site? 

Good question.

Course Library Page/Home page

Well I made my home page the Course Library page. This means that all new and current courses will appear here for you to choose from and whenever you want to revisit this page, within the site, you can either click on the Courses tab at the top right of your screen, or the Asexualise Academy logo at the top left of your screen.

Once you click on "details" of a course, you will be taken to its page, where you can find out all about that particular course and make an informed decision about whether it's right for you or not and make a purchase.

About page!

If you want to know more about why I created this site, check out the About page!


This is where you would create a username and unique password to sign up to one of the courses after you have made a purchase! Then you will be taken to your profile screen, where you can fill in your own profile details, and get instant access to all the courses that you purchase, any time you like, from the comfort of your own home; bed; toilet; car; or wherever you can fit a mobile or smart device for easy viewing! You can also comment on any course you have taken!

When you are logged in, you will see an "Account" tab in your menu bar, which is your profile page with access to all of the courses you have bought. 

Asexualise Academy Tribe

I always like to reward those who take action and especially those who do it quickly! This means once you sign up to Asexualise Academy Tribe, you will receive emails about asexuality and being asexual, with special deals, and early bird offers on future courses! This is for you, if you are serious about learning more about asexuality and you want to develop yourself into the best asexual version of you! So if Asexualise Academy fits your vibe, become part of our Asexualise Academy tribe! If you havent yet signed up, here is the link http://eepurl.com/dz70S1 


On every page of this site, there is a chat bubble on the bottom right corner of your screen, this means you can always get help. Whether you want know more information about a particular course, you have a pre-sales question, or you want to give feedback on how a course could be improved or what other courses you would like to see, you can, and it will remember your conversation with me when you next come back to the site, so you can view my answers there or leave your email and I will get back you, how acesome is that? 

If for any reason I am not available immediately on chat, which does happen as I am actively creating new content all the time, then leave your email and I will get back to you!

You can also email me directly [email protected] if you need any help with selecting a course or with a course you have already enrolled on. I want you to know that I am here for you to support you. When you buy a course, you also get the support.

What if you want something free?

If you are looking to get some information and help for free about asexuality and being asexual, and not sure where to start, you can start right here, right now, with my free 9 part video training course, Asexuality Basics For Beginners An Introduction To Asexuality course, which is located on the course library page under the Courses tab, and subscribe to my Asexualise My Asexual Life Channel. I usually release a new video every week about a different topic or area of asexuality and am known for tackling those tough topics that some others would rather avoid, or not mention! I tell it like it is! Particularly in the areas of asexual dating and relationships! So if you like that style of presentation, subscribe now! youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife You can also check out and subscribe to my blog on my www.asexualise.com website.

That's it for now!

If I have missed anything out then let me know!

As always, stay ace! 

Sandra xx