In this Asexuality Basics For Beginners, Introduction To Asexuality course, you will learn how to tell if you are asexual or not.

You will discover what asexuality is, what asexuality is not, and what the Asexual Spectrum is, with detailed definitions of some of the main orientations within the spectrum, to help you find out where you fit in!


Now you can finally stop bashing your head against a brick wall trying to make sense of it all! I know, I have been there and it is very frustrating and even upsetting at times, to not be able to understand where you fit in with your own asexual orientation, as there are so very many nuances and things to learn about asexuality, and if you are like me, you can feel overwhelmed by it all. You may have already Googled asexuality and followed the long trail of what it means to be asexual, checked out some of the sites and forums, but still none the wiser, or if you are, you still have that puzzled expression on your face thinking 'what the heck!!!'

Don't worry, I am here to help! That is why I created this site in the first place, for people just like you, who are frustrated and fed up with trawling through the tons of information out there, tryng to make sense of it all, and you still feel like you just don't get it all! Especially as 'all' is a lot to get!

This course will give you all the basics of what asexuality is and isn't, and how to tell if you are asexual or not.

It is a fantastic indepth foundation for your understanding of what asexuality is and the Asexual Spectrum as a whole, told in the most simplistic and easy to understand terms. 

In this 9 part course you will discover:

  • What asexuality is. 
  • What asexuality is not.
  • How you can tell if you are asexual or not.
  • What the asexual spectrum is and how it can be applied to you. With detailed defintions of what is means to be:
    • Aromantic
    • Grey Romantic
    • Demiromantic
    • Heteroromantic
    • Homoromantic
    • Biromantic
    • Panromantic
    • Grey Asexual
    • Demisexual
  • Where to get further help and support.


If you need my help with any courses or have any questions, you can always reach out to me on chat which is available on every page and it will remember your conversation with me when you next come back to the site, so you can view my answers there or leave your email and I will get back you, how acesome is that? 

Or you can always reach me at [email protected] 

If you like the thumbnail design of this course, it's one of my own unique Asexualise merchandise designs (see below) that you can find here: 


What are you waiting for? 

Get started on this acesome course and enroll now!


In this course you will learn what Asexuality is and what Asexuality is not and how to tell if you are Asexual. You will discover what the Asexuality Spectrum is and some of the many definitions and identities within it and have a free PDF download of further resources.


Part Two - Defining The Asexual Spectrum

Part Four - Defining Biromantic and Panromantic

Part Five - Defining Homoromantic and Heteroromantic

Part Six - Lets Talk Grey A

Part Seven - Myths and Stereotypes

Part Eight - Indulging your ace

Part Nine - Further Resources


Sandra Bellamy (AKA Asexualise)

Heteroromantic Asexual, with the Grey (A)rea of kissing. 

My mission is to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right, throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

I have been organising and holding in person asexual meetups for over 5 years. 

Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories on Amazon.

Presenter and daily Chat Show Host at Asexualise My Asexual Life! 

Founder/Trainer at Asexualise Academy, the world's first online Training Centre and School for Asexuals and Asexuality. 

Founder and Blogger at

Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London July 2018.

As seen in Daily Mirror, Daily Mail, Femedic, as heard on BBC Radio twice, including the Jeremy Vine Show. As heard on New Inceptions, Freestyle your Life and Straight Up Gay podcasts on ITunes!



Posted by Brian Diaz on July 20th at 2:49am

For those who are confused by the term "asexual" and want a clear, concise, accurate description, in addition to understanding "romantic orientation" versus "sexual orientation", I cannot express how much I would recommend this to you! Sandra is absolutely phenomenal at presenting her ideas in an elementary, yet charming manner! Five stars out of five!

Posted by Sandra Bellamy Chief Quirky on July 20th at 12:06pm

Hi Brian , thank you so much for the wonderful review. I am really glad you enjoyed the course so much and gave it top marks.