ASEXUAL MEETUP MASTERY

The information in this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, is everything I have learnt in my last 5 years of organising and holding in person asexual meetups.

Now it’s YOUR turn to put it to work.

What happens when you think about arranging your own asexual meetup?

Does the thought fill you with dread?

Or does it fill you with excitement at the possibility of meeting like-minded people and making some new friends? smile

Or did you try before, and fail?

If you can relate to any of these, then Asexual Meetup Mastery, video training course, is for YOU!

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Does this sound familiar? You want to start a meetup, but you don’t have a clue where to start? You feel really anxious because it’s something you’ve never done before, but you desperately want to make more asexual friends… You don’t know how to approach people, you don’t know what to say, to get them to come to your meetup, without scaring them away? Your greatest fear is that no one shows up, or the people that do show up barely say two words to you, and then vanish.

Or maybe you’ve tried arranging your own asexual meetup before, and you failed. Either no one showed up. Or the people who did show up, turned up when they felt like it. And then they weren’t engaged with what you were saying, so you felt bad. Maybe the meetups worked for a while and then tapered off. People stopped replying to your messages and no one was bothered.

The Reason Why Most People Fail

The problem with organising and holding in person asexual meetups, is many people just throw something out there, hoping people show up, with no real plan or strategy for how it will work and be successful. That’s why people fail. I know you don’t want to be one of those people!

It’s not your fault that no one’s shown you how to successfully arrange and hold an asexual meetup. This is because they’re in the dark, just as much as you. And winging it, simply never works long-term.

But if I can get people to show up time and time again, year after year, and travel hundreds of miles to my asexual asexual meetups – for over 5 years now! I am sure you can too!

In fact I have asexuals asking me when the next asexual meetup is. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if they enjoyed themselves so much at your meetup, they were asking you, when the next one is?

All you need is a proven formula, plan and strategy, and someone to take you by the hand step-by-step, and show you exactly how to execute that formula, plan, and strategy, in a way that will get you the success and results you desire.

Asexual Meetup Mastery is the be all and end all, of how to arrange an asexual meetup, for success. It’s the only course of its kind. It took me over 6 months to create this course, and there are over 70 videos. (Almost 80)

In this comprehensive Asexual Mastery course, I take you by the hand, and walk you through the exact step-by-step formula, plan, and strategy, for how to arrange your own asexual meetups. You'll look over my shoulder at every element of arranging and holding an in person asexual meetup, using a real life example. Not just the theory.

I will guide you through everything you need to know to ensure your asexual meetup is super successful. From how choose the right time, day, and venue for your meetup. To how to approach people, and exactly what to say to get them to come to your meetup, without scaring people away. You even get the editable scripts. 

You’ll have a concrete plan and strategy for your own asexual meetup, to ensure people show up, stay for a while, and it's super successful. Miss one of these steps out, and that's why you won't get the results you desire, and you’ll fail. You'll be missing out on people showing up. You'll end up waiting on them, instead of having people commit to show up for you! Worst of all, no one shows up! So you'll think what's the point and give up!

But There's A Cost To Giving Up Organising And Holding Your Own Asexual Meetups... Or Never Trying To Arrange An Asexual Meetup At All... And If You Do That, Things Just Get Worse!

It's no secret that asexuals are a recorded 1% of the population. This means we’re in the minority. We're, like flamingos, rare. It's hard to find us. Hard to see us. But we do exist.

I remember when I first discovered asexuality. I’d almost given up hope… that love without sex, really did exist. I thought I’m the only one in the entire world, planet, and universe, who feels this way. So I resigned myself to the fact, it’s likely I’m going to be alone forever. No one really understands me, and that hurts. The road ahead is going to be painfully upsetting, hopeless, and doomed in that way.

But when I first discovered asexuality in the forums on AVEN, it was like my life had been transformed at the click of a button. 

I went from being all alone, thinking I’m the only one like this. Being told I had to have sex "in order to keep a good guy", by a "professional" NHS counsellor (yes, that’s the National Health Service, in the UK.) A professional counsellor told me that. Can you believe it…? I went home and Googled I love kissing but not sex, because I was not happy she told me that. And finally… the revelation I’d been waiting for all my life… I am Asexual… I was so relieved… That was March 2014.

But that excitement soon shattered. And once again, I was made to feel like an outsider… Someone on AVEN told me I couldn’t identify as I did. They told me because I didn’t experience any sexual attraction, I could not add the Grey A after heteroromantic. Yet someone who was an asexual meetup organiser on Asexualitic dating site for asexuals, told me that the way I like to kiss passionately, is Grey A. 

When I researched Grey A at the time, it was a catch all term for those who felt like they didn’t quite fit into an asexual box. They were somewhere in-between asexual and sexual. I felt because I had some sexual behaviour with the way I like to kiss, despite experiencing no sexual attraction whatsoever, I felt more comfortable identifying this way. Only to be told by someone on the AVEN forums, that was not okay. 

I just stayed there, staring at my computer screen, in disbelief. Her words were echoing through my mind... I just couldn’t believe what happened, really did happen… That the one place I finally found people like me, could be so exclusionary, was mortifying. I felt rejected. I felt devastated… Upset and horrified. I felt like I could not be me. It wasn’t okay. I felt ganged up on and seriously let down.

I needed to flee from there, and run away, back to no man’s land. It was lonely, but at least I wasn’t being virtually beaten to a pulp. I felt like my lifeline came… and just as quickly it was gone, at the click of a button.

I was put off from going on there for some time. I felt like I had taken the most hugest leap forward… and the most gigantic leap back. Something was very worrying and wrong about this situation.

But… If You Ignore The Feeling Of Isolation, Of Disconnection, Of Emptiness, Of Loneliness, And Despair, It Just Gets Worse!

What most people do when feeling lonely, isolated, disconnection, or in despair, they talk to their friends, their family, their loved ones, a therapist, or a medical professional. But for most asexuals, none of that usually works.

  • Many families don’t accept asexuality is real. Those that do accept it don’t fully understand it. (So you’re still left feeling lonely and misunderstood.)
  • Friends will often dismiss it, saying you just haven’t found the right person for you yet. (Making you feel misunderstood and invalidated.) Some friends will even feel so uncomfortable, that they change the subject. (And then you feel you can’t be yourself.)
  • Loved ones may not even know you are asexual. They may be really hard to approach. It could cause confrontation. Those who do accept asexuality, and have an understanding towards you, still don’t fully understand asexuality, itself. (So you feel disconnected, alone, and miserable.)
  • As you have seen from the counsellor I had, some therapists don’t accept asexuality and give really bad advice. They won’t even entertain the idea of asexuality, or encourage you to be yourself. Those who do accept it still don’t fully understand it. (So you know no matter what you say, they’ll never really get you. And the loneliness and pain just continues to build, as you’re deeply misunderstood.)
  • Many medical professionals still don’t accept asexuality is real. They think there’s something wrong with your hormones, or your genitalia, or that it’s a result of trauma. Those who do accept it, still usually look at it with a clinical mind. So when you’re talking about your asexuality, they just sit there in deadly silence, and it’s that silence that says it all… (So you continue to feel isolated and in emotional pain.)

If You Do Nothing, You reach Breaking Point!

I just couldn’t stand it anymore. Being around people who weren’t asexual, knowing they will never understand me, they can’t because they are not asexual, just hurt like hell! Knowing there is a load of people on AVEN, who did understand me to a point, just intensified the disconnection, the isolation, the loneliness, and the pain. It was like being robbed of your freedom. Stabbed part way through your heart, and you are left in limbo! If you stay where you are, you die.

I knew from my previous years of depression, what it was to feel like, dying inside my soul. I vowed I would never, ever, ever, get depressed again… When I freed myself of depression in 2012.

But still… I was feeling misunderstood… I was feeling disconnection… because I didn’t know anyone like me to talk to face-to-face. To be there for me. To care for me. To understand me and love me for who I was.

So I had to act. And I had to act now. Because if I didn’t, I would stay where I was…. In a dark place. The loneliness and despair would just continue. And I had to take some action…

How I Achieved Asexual Liberation… Freedom From Emotional Upset And Pain. Freedom From Disconnection, Isolation, Being Lonely And Feeling Misunderstood.

I decided enough was enough. Either I change the situation, or I keep getting the same result. I was fed up with feeling like no one understood me all my life. I knew I didn’t want to go back to being depressed. So it was finally time to take charge of myself… my life, and my asexuality.

I mustered up the courage to go back on AVEN. I knew I had to. I didn’t want to go backwards in my life. I wanted to go forward. I didn’t want to let one person on AVEN ruin my entire life. I didn’t want it to stop me from having the opportunity and freedom that comes from being with people of your own kind. 

Fortunately I messaged a guy on AVEN who had a similar experience to me. He felt excluded because of how he identified too. It wasn’t fortunate he felt this way and had a similar experience. It was fortunate we could relate to each other, because I knew there was nothing wrong with me.

I just knew I just had to be careful what I said in the AVEN forums, and use AVEN for my own purposes… to meet other asexuals… like me.

Fast forward to January 2015. I was so happy I had found other asexuals online. I felt so comforted… and it felt so amazing to know there were other asexuals out there like me. But something was missing… That was just it. They were out there. I had yet to meet another asexual in a face-to-face, real world environment, that would solidify asexuality for me. It was like being an alien on the same planet and never meeting up on our own starship.

I found a thread on AVEN that was discussing arranging an asexual meetup in my area, but no one was taking any decisive action to make that happen. And even though I was both nervous and anxious, because it was something I’d never done before in my life… I decided to take on the role and make it happen.

This is moment when my dream of meeting another asexual, face-to-face, became a reality. When two asexual females agreed to meet me outside of my work, to go for food together at Nandos. (Which is a chicken restaurant.) I was so elated.

Here is a screenshot of that first meetup arrangement. This is the Aven thread in which two other asexuals had agreed to meet me outside of my work.

 

 

I cannot tell you how happy it made me feel when I saw those two asexuals waiting for me outside of my work. I felt such glee in my heart. I felt like a giddy schoolgirl, who had just won the egg and spoon race. You’re always afraid the egg will drop and splat, before you’ve got over the finish line, and end up all over your face! I’m really pleased to say, that never happened.

I wasn’t sure what to expect but they felt like my kind of people.

In school I was bullied, predominantly by females. So I always felt more comfortable around guys. But when I met these two females, I really connected with them and clicked with them. I was so happy.

I felt such warmth and deep understanding from those two females, who I’d never met in person before. Who were strangers to me.

Besides explaining they didn’t want sex in a relationship, and they didn’t really like it or need it. They also made some sex jokes. I thought I was weird because I was an asexual who could make sex jokes, despite not wanting or liking sex. So I felt so comfortable and at ease when they did that too. It just felt great. The banter was wonderful. The atmosphere was wonderful. The food was lovely. I just had the most amazing time of my life. It’s just incredible. I’m still friends with one of these asexuals, today. I just really, really loved that moment that changed my life forever.

Before I got there, because I could make jokes about sex, despite not wanting or liking sex, I wasn’t sure I even fitted into the asexual community. But after seeing these two individuals, I just knew I did. And I felt so at home, so at peace, and I felt they were my extended ACE family. That just felt incredible. It’s a feeling I wanted to get over and over again. And from that moment I was hooked on doing meetups. I thought if I can feel this incredible right now, by doing my first asexual meetup, it’s only going to get better from here on in.

So that’s how I started my asexual meetup journey. That was over 5 years ago. And I still love doing asexual meetups. They’re so awesome.

Before I even did that meetup, I did do some extensive research into what made asexual meetups good and what made them bad. What people were saying was good about them and what people were saying they didn’t like about them.

And I learnt from my own experience. Because I wanted to go to someone else’s meetup before I even did that meetup. But it was really, really bad… because I have food allergies and intolerances. And this guy was just so… not caring about that. I said whereabouts are you eating? I need to get a menu because I’m worried about my food allergies and intolerances… I don’t want to come all that way (because it wasn’t directly near me, it was two hours away on the train), and I didn’t want to go on a train journey and waste the money when I get there not being able to eat anything and enjoy myself. I get low blood sugar and I needed to eat regularly anyway. He wasn’t bothered about helping me… He couldn’t care less… I was really hurt.

What made it worse was when I said to him I don’t eat red meat. I said I don’t eat pork, lamb, or beef. (I consider pork to be a red meat.) His reply was harsh… Why don’t you eat that!!!... If you’ve got all these food allergies and intolerances, why are you making life more difficult for yourself? ... It was horrible. I didn’t want to be virtually stabbed for my life choices, for my food choices. I gave up eating red meat when I was 15 years old. I wasn’t about to change for him. That really, really hurt me. I was unwelcome. They couldn’t care less that I was different. And in an asexual community, where we’re a minority, we’re different, and my differences were being attacked… it was just horrible… and that’s when I decided, I definitely just want to do my own asexual meetups.

I vowed to never, ever, ever, treat people that way. I want my asexual meetups to be different. I want my asexual meetups to be fully inclusive. Inclusive of people with mental health difficulties. Inclusive of people with disabilities. Inclusive of people who really struggled in life… who are anxious or depressed. Including of those with food allergies and intolerances. Inclusive of asexuals all across the asexual spectrum. I want to go that extra mile for people. I want people to know I really care about them.

I wanted to connect with more asexuals. I wanted those asexuals who particularly felt lonely and left out, because they were different within a different community, to have the connection, the feeling, the love, the caringness, that we all need. That’s what makes my meetups different. That’s why I consider myself a professional meetup organiser. Because not only have I got 5 years experience in arranging and holding asexual meetups, with a proven formula, plan and strategy for success. I also come from a place of love, of genuinely caring about asexuals.

My meetups went from strength-to-strength. I became well known for getting people to travel hundreds of miles across the UK, to come to meetups in my city. Over the course of 5 years, my meetups have become really well known for being inclusive. Especially understanding, welcoming, and accommodating, to those with special needs and mental health difficulties. Ensuring that they have a safe environment to flourish. Which is a skill in itself.

The Power Of Asexual Meetups - Something Incredible Happened Which I Wasn’t Expecting

In 2018, I had an asexual meetup. Only this time was different. I met someone from one of my asexual dating Facebook groups. The no sex dating one. 

Sam travelled almost 200 miles, just to come to one of my meetups. They stayed in a hotel in my city. After spending the whole weekend together, something happened that had never happened in my life before… I knew without a shadow of a doubt, I could trust them 100%... 100%... That’s never happened to me before, ever. And I made the most incredible bestest friend for life.

Here is a photo of me and Sam, at a Harry Potter themed bar, at one of my asexual meetups in my city.

Because of my past bad experiences, it would usually take me a long time to trust someone. And I usually wouldn’t be able to fully trust anyone. But with Sam it was different. They completely changed my life. And if I hadn’t started holding asexual meetups, I would never have met this best friend for life.

I would still be feeling lost and lonely. Like I’m the only one in the entire world, planet, and universe, who feels this way. I’d still be feeling left out. I’d still be feeling misunderstood. I’d still be feeling trapped and cut off from the world, with no way out.

I would still feel like my life where dating and relationships is concerned, is over. With no hope for the future. Although romantically me and Sam aren’t compatible, I still have the most loving, wonderful, amazing, respectful friendship, I could ever ask for.

Now I have two asexual best friends… I never dreamed I’d find another person like me in the world. Let alone have two really awesome best asexual friends. That I love dearly as friends. They’re still very much a part of my life. They’re in my life every single week, most days. And for that I am truly grateful and thankful to asexual meetups. And the fact I had the courage to start arranging asexual meetups. Without which, none of these friendships would have been possible. In fact, we are all best friends together, because I introduced these two asexuals to each other, at one of my asexual meetups.

I’ve made other asexual friends as well. Friends that travel far and wide. Friends that come locally. And I’m so grateful and thankful for each and every one of them.

Just imagine what your life would be like, if you could do the same…

  • The forever friendships you could make.
  • The understanding you would gain.
  • The validation you would get from being around people of your own kind.
  • Your anxieties just melting away….
  • The loneliness disappearing….
  • The happiness you would gain.
  • Like-minded people to share your life and dreams with.
  • The support you so badly need.
  • The lifeline you can give to other asexuals and yourself.
  • The confidence you will gain.
  • The self-esteem that will rise within you because you will be around people who understand you and who make you feel good for being who you are.

What To Do When Disaster Strikes!

Then disaster strikes! COVID-19 pandemic, bang!

Now just imagine you’ve arranged an asexual in person meetup, and just like that, bang! It’s gone… You have to stop it.

The friendships you’ve made… The people you want to spend time with… The people you love and care about the most, you can’t see anymore. In person meetups completely stopped! Just like that!

Just imagine that in person warmth gone in the blink of an eye… Nothing… You can no longer see your friends. You can’t give them a hug hello, or a hug goodbye. Or to just feel happy to be in their company, knowing they understand your aversion to touch or to sex, or your indifference to either.

Just imagine all that connection disappearing overnight…

Just imagine the loneliness and isolation making its vengeful comeback.

The opportunity to speak, eat and drink, with those who understand you. And give you that compassion and companionship that only another asexual can provide. Possibly gone forever…

This is what happened when the COVID-19 pandemic lockdown occurred.

I had arranged an asexual meetup and my best friend Sam had paid for their travel, transport, and accommodation to attend. My other best friend Andy was all set to come. Some regulars were also ready to attend. A couple of newbies were coming too, and one of them was so excited, as it was on her actual birthday. And she couldn’t think of any better way she’d rather spend her birthday, than with people of her own kind, other asexuals. Everyone was looking forward to coming to this meetup. Then COVID-19 happened. The lockdown forced everyone to stay at home. The only way to connect with others face-to-face, was to going back to where all this first started… online. And arrange online asexual meetups.

This is why online asexual meetups are so important. So we can stay connected to those we care about, those we love. Those who are like us It’s so important for our mental health, our health and wellbeing, and it just feels great, you know…

Why This Asexual Meetup Mastery MEGA BONUS Is Your Lifeline And You Need To Act Now

When you are cut off from asexual in person meetups, you must make arranging and holding your own online asexual meetups an absolute must! They are your lifeline. They are your connection to others, just like you. To those who understand you, who care about you, who want you in their life. Those who will give you the support and comfort you need.

To be cut off from your own kind, is like starving yourself of oxygen that you so badly need. It’s vital when you’re asexual, to be with people who understand you. To have people who you can relate to, who will comfort you in your pain. Who will be there for you, when certain family, friends, and loved ones aren’t, because they simply don’t get you.

This is especially true right now, if you still feel with the current virus situation, there is no way you are going to an in person asexual meetup!

That’s why, when you order Asexual Meetup Mastery, today, you will also get the entire How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup, video training course, absolutely FREE, as a MEGA BONUS!

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  • If you do nothing, you lose the opportunity to connect with more asexuals. Which are in low supply at the best of times.
  • You miss the opportunity of a lifetime to build and grow your support network, which is so vital to your survival in this highly sexualised world.
  • Asexual meetups give you that feeling of belonging, of community, of hope. They give you the feeling that you are a part of something bigger.
  • If you do nothing. You go back to your life of loneliness, of no one understanding you, and you feel you’ve cheated yourself out of a better future, and a better life! You cry… you feel sad, and look back at the end of your life, full of regrets… You missed the opportunity to form friendships that last a lifetime and you die never knowing your true asexual potential…

This is what I don’t want for you…

I know many asexuals in online groups, find them helpful, but in my experience, for a large proportion of those, it’s not enough. They still need that in person contact.

  • They still feel lonely.
  • They still feel isolated.
  • They still feel depressed.
  • They still feel frustrated at not being able to meet any asexuals near to where they live.
  • They still feel like they have no one to actually talk to.

So their pain continues to grow…

The good news is, you can arrange and hold your own in person asexual meetup, even if you’ve never held a meetup in your life, or you’ve failed miserably before.

You can be so super successful, that other asexuals will come to you, asking you when your next online asexual meetup is, wouldn’t that be great?

All You Need Is A Clear Step-By-Step Plan, And Strategy, Then You Too, Can Be Successful At Arranging And Holding Your Own In Person Asexual Meetups

If you’ve already tried to arrange your own asexual meetup and failed, the reason for your frustration is not from a lack of willpower or effort on your part. What’s held you back is you’ve simply tried the wrong things. You didn’t learn from someone who’s already succeeding, and has a proven step-by-step formula and plan, that’s easy for you to follow, so you can succeed too. What this means is if you act on the right things, you will succeed.

That’s why you need to act now, and get Asexual Meetup Mastery video training course, right now.

Everything you need to know about how to arrange your own asexual meetups, and ensure they’re super successful, is in my Asexual Meetup Mastery video training course. 

This is the first ever online video training course, that shows you exactly how to organise and host your own in person asexual meetups, to ensure they’re super successful. Using a real life example. With a proven strategy, and step-by-step plan. So you know exactly what you’re doing every step of the way.

Here’s What Others Have To Say

 

This is what Andy had to say about Asexual Meetup Mastery... you can see this review again at the bottom of this page. 

This excellent and comprehensive course walks you through every aspect of hosting your own asexual meetup.

Presented by renowned author, trainer and entrepreneur Sandra Bellamy, who has many years experience of running successful asexual meetups. In fact, I have attended many of them myself and very much enjoyed meeting the diverse range of people who attend them.

The course gives a live, over the shoulder view of the author planning a real meetup.

The engaging videos cover a wide range of topics, your aims for your meetup, choosing the venue, finding people who want to attend, publicising your event on asexual sites and other social media, encouraging people to attend, mistakes to avoid, and looking after the mental health of your attendees, and your own.

Also included are many useful resources to download, including a meetup script checklist, multiple scripts for different social media posts and asexual sites, and there is also a bonus list of 156 ideas for things to do at an asexual meetup.

This course is suitable both for beginners, and existing organisers who want to expand their meetups. The course was a great investment, and gave me the confidence to grow and develop my own meetups.

 

This is what Sam had to say about Asexual Meetup Mastery... you can see this review again at the bottom of this page.

This is also the same person who is in the testimonial video at the top of this page; the person who I spoke of, as the bestest asexual friend I made, and is featured in the photo with me at the Harry Potter style bar, at one of my meetups.

I attended my first asexual meetup around 2015. It was a fairly local one and I had never been to any sort of meetup before, due to being extremely introverted. I decided to give it a go to make some new friends. So I signed up and went along. Unfortunately the meetup did not meet my expectations. There were around 8 or so of us, and several of the others were already acquainted, leaving those of us who were new to the meetups largely ignored and left out, and there was no real organisation. I never attended those meetups again, and decided perhaps it was just that meetups weren't for me.

I attended one other meetup organised through someone else the following year, and again felt the organiser was cold and distant. My experience at both of these taught me that those groups tend to have their inner circle of friends, and weren't overly interested in getting to know other people, until maybe they have attended enough meetups to join the circle. I felt disappointed, sad, and let down, that the community I hoped would welcome me, as we are in the minority after all, rejected me. I decided at this time to no longer attend meetups.

In 2018, I decided to give asexual meetups another go, as I really wanted to make some friends. I had seen Sandra mention hers a few times, and though we did not know each other she seemed like a nice and caring person from what I had seen, so I decided I would try her meetups.

I attended the first one in May 2018, travelling 200 miles to get there. I had spoken to Sandra about the meetup before I attended, and relayed my anxiety and mental health issues, and she was very thoughtful and considerate.

She met me at the coach station, took me to the hotel to book in, and took a genuine interest in my well-being and ensured I was comfortable. She showed a great interest in sharing our experiences within the asexual community and also other interests.

When we met with the other people who attended, Sandra made sure that everyone was included in the conversation and that people were comfortable and happy with the arrangements, and made everyone feel welcome.

As I was booked into the hotel for a few days due to the travel time, she spent the entire weekend with me, getting to know each other. I knew then that I was glad I decided to give meetups another chance. After spending the weekend getting to know one another, we quickly became best friends, and have been extremely close ever since, due to her open, honest, and caring nature.

When arranging her meetups, Sandra is attentive to the views and needs of all the attendees, keeps an open mind, and maintains a relaxed and friendly atmosphere.

I have attended several of Sandra's meetups and really enjoy the fact that there is plenty of conversation and genuine interest shown in people.

I am happy to say that through Sandra's meetups I have made a few valuable lifelong friends, including Sandra and someone else who has similar interests to me.

Over the time I have been attending her meetups, we have done a wide array of activities, and I have met quite a number of new people. Several of these I now consider friends and look forward to seeing them each time, and keep in touch with them outside of the meetups.

Sandra also arranged a meetup specifically for my birthday in 2019, which spanned several days, and Sandra made plans for the entire duration. It was quite definitely the best birthday I have had.

Sandra's meetups just feel more personal and meaningful than others I have attended. I have attended quite a few others now, since attending Sandra's rekindled my interest in them. I haven't had the same experience with other asexual meetups as I have with hers, because she seems to be far more considerate of the needs of the attendees before and during the meetup, and ensures everyone feels included.

Having now been to a fair number of meetups organised by various people, I can quite certainly say that I have had far more success, enjoyment, and sense of community at Sandra's, than any of the others.

It is important for asexuals to attend meetups because in my experience asexuality itself can lead to feelings of isolation and also that you are broken in some way. I had felt like that my whole life, but having attended Sandra's meetups and getting to know her and other attendees, and making some real friends, I know that is not the case.

Through attending meetups I have been exposed to a lot of new ideas and views, and been encouraged to accept myself as I am, and to value myself as a human being. I have also become somewhat more comfortable with being around people, and less anxious in those situations.

Attending meetups is a great way to expand your social network and to make new friends in the community who understand the lack of sexual attraction, as the majority of non-asexuals cannot seem to get their head around that. And so it makes you feel less isolated and more accepted for who you are, without having to hide.

It is also essential to have more meetup organisers, because it helps to expand the community, and to encourage more asexuals to attend them.

Sandra has great insight into organising and holding meetups, in how to get people to attend and to keep coming back, and to make people feel welcomed and part of the community. She is also very good at dealing with different situations that may arise. As I have said, I have been to meetups organised by several different people, and have been made to feel much more cared for, comfortable, and at home, at Sandra's meetups, than others. As well as a general feeling of them being more organised. Which are all a definite must if you want people to continue to attend and to grow your meetups. It is therefore essential for anyone who wants to run successful meetups to get this course.

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PART 1 – Welcome – About Asexual Meetup Mastery Course  

 Revealed to you… the one that can make all the difference!

PART 2 – How To Be A Master Without Disaster

 Unlock the magical ingredients you need to succeed, at organising and hosting your own asexual meetups.

 Discover the 4 keys to thrive and flourish as an asexual meetup organiser.

 Uncover the two key factors, that make or break your asexual meetup success.

 Discover the Fantastic 5 places you can find asexual attendees for your meetup. So you aren’t left hanging at the bar all alone, watching the clock tick by, thinking WTF is everyone?

PART 3 – Asexual Meetups And Your 5 Ways To Wellbeing

 Uncover your 5 ways to wellbeing.

 Discover how asexual meetups improve each of these 5 aspects of your life. Both for you and your attendees.

 Revealed… the confidence competence loop. How you can use it to get ahead, in your meetups and your life. And reduce any anxiety you may be feeling.

 Uncover the things you must take notice of, if you want to make sure your meetups are super successful.

 Discover the power of giving. And what it can do for you and your attendees.

PART 4 – Essential Qualities You Need As An Organiser And How To Get Started

 Revealed, the must know dos and don’t of asexual meetup mastery.

 Discover the best times and days, for your asexual meetups. To ensure people show up and want to be there.

 Uncover major date blunders, which could spell disaster for your meetups.

 Discover different types of meetups to hold and to avoid. The good, and the horrifying! Save yourself pain and time, with these ideas.

 Uncover the major differences between national and local meetups.

 Revealed… how to go that extra mile to ensure people show up and want to be at your meetup.

 Discover how to create a safe environment for those with anxiety. To prevent them from panicking, so they feel happy to come to your meetups, instead of dreading them.

PART 5 – Examples Of Previous Asexual Meetups And Things You Need To Know

 Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup..

 Uncover what you need to know about ‘different’ meetups.

 Revealed… which are the most popular types of meetups for asexuals.

 Uncover how to cater for introverts who attend your meetups.

 Learn how to cater for those with health conditions such as CFS, (Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.)

 Discover how your attendees can get cheap train tickets and accommodation, to encourage them to attend.

 Learn how to cater for special dietary requirements to be fully inclusive. 

PART 6 – How To Gain Commitment To Ensure People Show Up

 Revealed… the #1 thing you need to check, before you invite people to attend your meetup. Get this wrong, and it could spell disaster.

 Revealed… the #1 mistake other meetup organisers are making, which encourages non-commitment. If people aren’t showing up to your meetups, this is why!

 Discover the one thing you must always do, to ensure you gain commitment, and people show up to your meetups!

 Learn how to be inclusive when arranging your meetups.

PART 7 – How To Organise An Asexual Meetup – Asexual Meetup Walk Through In Real Time

 Uncover multiple must know mistakes to avoid when choosing the day, date and time for your meetup. This important information, is the difference between people showing up and enjoying themselves, or no one showing up at all.

 Discover why it’s important to book the venue in advance, and the problems of not doing so.

 Watch me book the venue for a real life meetup, in real time, to see how it’s done the right way.

 Learn how to create your ideal meetup script using a real life example, in real time.

 Discover meetup script tops tips for success, and a small detail to pay attention to, that can make all the difference. Miss this small detail out, and you could end up with asexuals going to the wrong venue and being extremely angry with you.

 Watch me uncover your ideal asexual meetup script checklist for success. And two embarrassing mistakes to avoid.

 Learn how to pre-empt objections, to solve problems BEFORE they even become one.

 Get my full Asexual Meetup Script Checklist With Template PDF download.

 Learn how to instill confidence, to make your potential attendees far more likely to attend.

PART 8 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Facebook - Pages And Groups

 Learn best practices, for how to post about your asexual meetup on your personal Facebook profile.

 Explore asexual meetup groups, and best practice for preparing to create your own.

 Discover 3 ways how to create a Facebook Group for your meetup, and things you need to know to make it a success.

 Uncover the important features of a Facebook Group and how to best manage it.

 Get done for you, questions for asexual group admittance. This is a download for you to use, to help you avoid an unwanted guest.

 Learn how to promote your asexual meetup, the right way in your Facebook Group/s.

 Learn how to create a Get-Together in your group/s, for your meetup.

 Get Asexualise Academy editable WORD template download, for posting about your meetup to your Facebook profile, Facebook Groups and Pages, site groups and forums. Delete and amend as appropriate. It’s that simple.

 Discover how to create a Facebook page for your meetup.

 Learn how to sell tickets for your meetup, free or paid. If you want to.

 Discover important things you need to know about posting your meetup to a Facebook page, to avoid an unwanted guest.

 Learn how to create an event for your meetup, on your Facebook page.

 Revealed… an example of what a good asexual meetup facebook Page looks like, so you can learn what works.

 Discover how to ensure your meetup post gets noticed.

PART 9 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexualitic And Get People To Attend

 Learn about Asexualitic. And important things you need to know about the site, as a meetup organiser.

 Explore an asexual meetup group and what to do to gain commitment.

 Discover how to create a group for your meetup on Asexualitic, and a word of warning.

 Uncover an example of a good meetup group description.

 Learn how to add a post to a group forum.

 Discover how to private message forum group members, and exactly what to say, to encourage them to attend.

 Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Templates For Asexualitic Private Messaging. Done for you download.

 Exploring Asexualitic profiles, and important things you need to know about them.

 Discover how to find members in your local area or country, to message to come to your meetups.

 Learn how to best promote your meetup on your Asexualitic profile, without full membership.

PART 10 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Twitter And Get More People To Attend

 Learn how to promote your meetup on Twitter. And important things you need to know.

 Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable Word Template For Twitter. Done for you, download.

PART 11 – How To Maintain Commitment From Attendees

 Learn the right way to follow up with asexual meetup attendees before the meetup, to ensure they still attend.

 Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Facebook Messenger Follow Up Script. Done for you, download.

PART 12 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Ace-book And Get People To Attend

 Explore features of an Ace-book profile.

 Learn how to create a blog post for your meetup.

 Learn how to create an Event for your meetup on Ace-book, and mistakes to avoid.

 Learn how to create a new topic in a forum on Ace-book, for your meetup.

 Discover the best way to message strangers on Ace-book to get them to attend your meetup.

 Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Script For Ace-book. Done for you, download.

 Uncover the power of messaging someone who wants to attend your meetup, and how to avoid spamming.

PART 13 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexuality.org (AVEN) And Get People To Attend

 Learn how to promote your meetup on AVEN for maximum impact.

 Discover how to check existing meetup threads for meetups already in your area, so you avoid holding yours at the same time.

 Explore further, how my first asexual meetup happened. So you can learn what to do and not to do.

 Discover what problems you can encounter when organising asexual meetups, so you know how to deal with them.

 Learn how to reply to posts on AVEN.

 Discover how to start a new forum topic for your meetup.

 Learn how to post your meetup on your personal profile for maximum exposure.

 Discover how to private message people on AVEN. And be proactive, for maximum attendance.

PART 14 – How To Promote Your Meetup on Meetup(.com) And Get People To Attend

 Explore the purpose of Meetup website, and a message of caution.

 Learn how to create an account on Meetup and important things you need to know.

 Discover how to create a profile on Meetup to best utilise its helpful features, for maximum meetup exposure.

 Explore the benefits of Meetup Pro and how it can benefit you and your meetups.

 Learn how to best manage your account, email updates, settings, and notifications. So you can keep track of all Meetup activity relevant to you and your meetups.

 Discover how to join existing asexual meetup groups and related groups. For your own personal benefit, and the benefit of your own meetups.

 Explore a different type of meetup group, as an example of an enticing group description. So you can get ideas for your own meetup, to encourage more people to attend.

 Explore an example of a good welcome message, which is especially encouraging to those who have anxiety or special needs. So you can be inclusive.

 Learn how to start your own meetup group on Meetup website, and important things you must know before you get started.

 Explore features of an existing asexual meetup group. So you can learn from the things they are doing right.

 Discover how to best use those features for your own meetup, with more ideas of the types of meetups you can hold.

 Learn how to get suggestions for future meetups, and how to best accommodate different needs.

 Uncover how to get group reviews and encourage attendance.

 Explore meetups for asexuals only, Vs including non-asexuals, so you can make an informed decision whether to include non-asexuals at your meetups, or not.

 Uncover a mistake to avoid, to stop missing out.

PART 15 – How To Promote Your Meetup On ACEapp And Get People To Attend

 Learn the purpose of ACEapp, and how to create the best profile.

 Discover how to find asexuals for your meetup and apply filters.

 Revealed… how to recognise and avoid, scammers and fakes. With a real life example.

 Uncover what other meetup organisers are getting wrong about national Vs local meetups, and what you need to do about it, to gain maximum attendance. If you don’t know what’s wrong, you won’t do what’s right.

 Discover the best techniques for approaching someone on ACEapp to encourage them to attend.

 Revealed… the best way to reply to someone who is autistic, and get them to attend. Using a real life example.

 Discover how and why, it’s important to be a pro organiser Vs passive organiser. And what this means for you.

PART 16 – How To Grow Your Asexual Meetup

 Revealed… how to find different places to go and things to do at your asexual meetups.

 Explore asexual merchandise for your meetups.

PART 17 – Next Steps

 Discover what you should do next, if you want to thrive and flourish as a pro meetup organiser. 

PART 18 – BONUS UK Asexuality Conference 2018 - How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup Talk And Notes

 This video is a recording of my 49-minute talk, at the UK Asexuality Conference in London, July 2018. Which explains the what, when, where, how and why, for organising a successful asexual meetup, which ensures people show up!

 How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup, UK Asexuality Conference notes. The foundational roadmap for your meetup success, which makes organising and hosting your meetups, a piece of cake! (These notes were not available as a handout at the Conference; they are exclusive to those who take this course.)

PART 19 – BONUS 156 Places To Go And Things To Do At Asexual Meetups

 Get 156 Ideas For What To Do And Where To Go For Asexual Meetups, And How To Make It A Success. Never be stuck for ideas for asexual meetups ever again, with this done for you, PDF download.

PART 20 – MEGA BONUS

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PART 1 – 3 Success Indicators You Need To Know To Be Super Successful

 Revealed to you… the 3 Success Indicators. Set yourself up for success from the start. Take the guesswork out of your success with these 3 must know Success Indicators.

PART 2 - Secret 7 Steps Formula For Online Asexual Meetup Success

 Unlock the secret 7 Steps Of Success. These simple steps make arranging and holding asexual meetups, hassle free, and as easy as 1,2,3,4,5,6,7. They may be simple, but not obvious.

 Discover the one question you need to ask yourself and focus on first, before you even start arranging your own asexual meetup. Miss this one question out, and it could spell disaster!

 Uncover must know mistakes, before you arrange your own asexual online meetup. These can be the difference between your success and failure.

 Discover the 3 main reasons why people hold asexual meetups, and explore which option is best for you.

 Discover the 3 main methods used to facilitate your online meetup, and identify which one’s best for you.

 Revealed to you… the 3 simple steps to structure your meetup to ensure it’s successful. Without a plan, you won’t reach your destination.

 Revealed… the one thing most people are not doing to gain commitment. Miss this one thing out, and it’s like betting on a horse you’ve never seen race.

 Discover the 3 powerful things you need to say to persuade people to show up. This is how you guarantee commitment and reduce your anxiety.

 What things to include in your online meetup description to ensure your online meetup runs smoothly and it’s super successful. Learn from my mistakes, to save you the embarrassment.

 Done for you, editable meetup description template download. Saving you time working it out on your own.

PART 3 - How To Promote Your Online Asexual Meetup To Ensure People Show Up Including Success Scripts

 Discover multiple ways to promote your online asexual meetup and identify which are best for you.

 Uncover a major mistake to avoid when promoting your asexual meetup. So you avoid an unwanted guest.

 What exact words to use, to persuade people to come to your meetup. Without scaring them away.

 Done for you, editable download script template to encourage attendance. Saving you time working it out on your own.

 Revealed… The little known secret to getting you maximum visibility for your meetup on Asexualitic. Use this powerful technique to gain maximum exposure.

PART 4 - Creating A Skype Group For Your Online Meetup For Zero Cost And Maximum Impact

 Look over my shoulder at exactly how to set up and use a Skype group for your online meetup success. For zero cost and maximum impact.

 Discover the two ways people can join the group.

 Discover important things to say to your attendees, so they are not left speechless and in the dark.

 Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup.

PART 5 – Success For Life – Secret 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint

 Summarising the 7 Steps Of Success you’ve learnt, for life. These can also be used for an in person meetup, over and over again.

 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint download. Includes the 3 Success Indicators. Takes the guesswork out of any meetup you want to arrange. Keep these handy to ensure any meetup you organise and hold, is super successful.

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♠ There’s 19 lessons. Which include 15 videos. And 4 downloadable handouts, which are just amazing, as they’re editable scripts. You’ll get my 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint, plus my 3 Success Indicators.

♠ You’ll learn how to promote your online asexual meetup and where to promote it. Including a really, really top tip, which most people don’t know. This top tip will show you how to promote your meetup and get hundreds of eyeballs on it, on a specific site. 

♠ The downloads are easily downloadable at the click of a button. So you can print them off. But if privacy’s an issue I go through everything on the screen. So you can take your own notes and hand write your own scripts out, based on what I’m saying in the videos. Without even using the handouts. So everything that you need to know is in the videos.

♠ You’ll be learning an easy to understand step-by-step formula. And you’ll be able to look over my shoulder at how I arrange online asexual meetups for success. 

♠ Many of the videos have important written reminders right underneath them. For your ease of understanding of key concepts, for how to make your own online asexual meetups, super successful.

♠ All you need to do is watch the videos as I hand hold you every step of the way, to your online meetup success. Just read the notes beneath the videos. Be able to copy and paste. It’s that simple.

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♠ You’re going to be learning from a successful and professional asexual meetup organiser. That’s been organising and hosting asexual meetups for over 5 years. That’s me. And asexuals return to my meetups time and time again. So I’m obviously doing something right.

♠ Asexual Meetup Mastery, which currently includes How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course, as a MEGA BONUS, is a video training course, which you get to view in your own private members area on secure Amazon servers, so you can have complete peace of mind.

Asexual Meetup Mastery is not based on theory, but uses a real life meetup example; my bestest friend Sam's birthday meetup. This is what makes this course so special and unique. And super powerful in enabling you to take the right actions, and avoid the painful mistakes I have made along the way in arranging and holding my own asexual meetups, for the past 5 years. 

You get to look over my shoulder as I arrange their birthday meetup, in real time, step-by-step. So you can see exactly what works and what doesn't. As I hold your hand every step of the way to your own asexual meetup success. 

♠ There’s 20 parts to Asexual Meetup Mastery. With 107 lessons in total. Which includes 79 videos in the main course, and 1 video in Bonus Part 18. As well as 15 videos in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making a total of 95 videos. It also includes 6 downloadable handouts in the main course, 1 download in Bonus Part 18, and 1 download in Bonus Part 19. And 4 downloads in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making 12 downloadable handouts in total.

♠ Upon purchase, you get instant access to this course, and its 3 bonuses, for life. 365 days a year. 24/7.

♠ Any future updates for this particular Asexual Meetup Mastery course and its current bonuses, will be free, for you.

♠ Learn from the comfort of your own home, or wherever you can access the site, in your own time, making it really convenient for you.

♠ It’s a one-time investment payment, with access for life. No monthly fees. No yearly fees. Once you have these skills, you have them for life. So you can just continue to do more and more meetups, and be super successful. 

♠ Email or chat support. Whilever you are taking the Asexual Meetup Mastery course, you can email me [email protected] or message me in the chat bubble, about anything to do with this specific course, and any of its bonuses.

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It’s important to note, once you learn these skills, you have them for life.

You can arrange any meetups you like, using the 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint. These can be online asexual meetups, (even in person asexual meetups), or any other type of meetups.

The Blueprint alone is worth far more than the one-time payment investment for the whole entire course.

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Why Is It So Inexpensive?

Because I know what it’s like to feel left out, lonely, and like other asexuals are out of reach.

I want to make this course affordable, for the most amount of asexuals possible, for this initial course launch, so you have the opportunity to bring together more asexuals than ever before.

I have seen asexuals in online groups and forums, trying to go it alone… Trying to work out how to arrange an asexual meetup and failing miserably.

This is because they haven’t got the knowledge, tools, and resources at their fingertips, to ensure they succeed.

They have no concrete plan or strategy, so they are doomed to fail. You don’t know, what you don’t know…

I want to give you all my tools, knowledge, and resources, to enable and empower you, to be the most successful asexual meetup organiser ever. For just a fraction of what I should be charging, if I was working for you solidly, for 6 + months, which is the time it took me to create this course. If I was working for an employer, I would be earning at least £1000 a month for doing such work, x by 6 months, and you can easily see why this course would be worth £6000… but I am not going to charge you that. I am just charging a fraction of that at $299. So you can live the life of your asexual meetup dreams…

  • Just imagine connecting with more asexuals.
  • Bringing more asexuals together.
  • Helping other asexuals to understand and know, they are not alone.
  • Making more asexual friends.
  • Providing a safe space for asexuals to feel like they can talk to someone, who they can know, like and trust.
  • Expanding your own support network, with other like-minded asexuals, who really understand you. And you can be there for each other. That’s absolutely priceless.

$299 is so inexpensive. It’s less than minimum wage for working 4 days for an employer in the UK. (£8.72 x 8 hours = £69.76 x 4 = £279.04.)

This course is priced in dollars, not GBP. So it's less than 4 days pay in the UK. And it took me 6+ months to create this course. So you’re getting an absolute bargain, value for money course. The average full-time worker in the UK, takes home £1000+ per month, after tax. So if someone employed me for 6 months, to film, edit, upload this course, and write all the descriptions for the videos, and create all the downloadable handouts, and bonuses, I would have got over £6000 for it. So the fact I am only changing $299 is so inexpensive.

I am sure you aware, many college courses are more expensive than that.

And you don’t usually get access to all the training materials online. Where you can access the course any time you want, for life. With all the training videos, all the tools and resources, at your fingertips.

Or an experienced Asexual Meetup Organiser, that you can ask any questions relating to this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, or any of its bonuses, inlcuding the MEGA BONUS, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup training course, for life. So long as I am here, you can message me. So long as you’re taking the course, you can message me, with any questions you may have about in person or online asexual meetups.

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If for any reason, you are not 100% delighted with how this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, takes you from no idea how to arrange a successful asexual meetup, to completely explaining how to do it successfully, step-by-step. With a proven plan for success, you can use time and time again…

If you feel you don’t get greater clarity for how to arrange an asexual meetup for success, including insights and must know mistakes to avoid... and if you don’t agree with all the benefits I’ve explained you get with the course…

Then simply email me at, [email protected] with the subject title “I want a refund”. Within 30 days of purchase. Include your name and email details you used to sign up for the course. How you paid. Along with a copy of your course receipt for a no questions asked, no hassle, 100% refund. Your access to the course will be removed. But you get to keep any resources you’ve downloaded, as my way of saying thank you for trying the course.

And that’s all I ask… just try the course. If in 30 days you are not satisfied. You can easily get your money back.

When you order this training course, you risk absolutely nothing.

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Every new opportunity starts with a new decision. This will be one of the best decisions you’ve ever made in your life, or your money back. You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

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Asexual Meetup Mastery is the #1 comprehensive training course, with a proven step-by-step formula, plan and strategy, to guarantee your asexual meetup is super successful. (You could say, it makes arranging and holding your own asexual meetups – a piece of cake!) And when you order right now, you get How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course, FREE, as a MEGA BONUS! Inside this course!
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Curriculum

PART 1 Welcome - About Asexual Meetup Mastery Course

PART 2 How To Be A Master Without Disaster

PART 3 Asexual Meetups And Your 5 Ways To Wellbeing

PART 4 Organiser Qualities and Meetup Ideas To Get You Going And Growing

PART 5 Examples Of Previous Asexual Meetups And Things You Need To Know

PART 6 How To Gain Commitment To Ensure People Turn Up

PART 7 How To Organise An Asexual Meetup - Asexual Meetup Walk Through In Real Time

PART 8 How To Promote Your Meetup On Facebook - Pages And Groups

PART 9 How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexualitic And Get More People To Attend

PART 10 How To Promote Your Meetup On Twitter And Get More People To Attend

PART 11 How To Maintain Commitment From Attendees

PART 12 How To Promote Your Meetup On Acebook And Get People To Attend

PART 13 How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexualityorg (AVEN) And Get People To Attend

Part 14 How To Promote Your Meetup on Meetup Dot Com And Get People To Attend

Part 15 How To Promote Your Meetup on ACEapp And Get People To Attend

PART 16 How To Grow Your Asexual Meetup

PART 17 - Next Steps

PART 18 - BONUS UK Asexuality Conference 2018 - How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup Talk and Notes

PART 19 - BONUS 156 Places To Go And Things To Do At Asexual Meetups

PART 20 - MEGA BONUS - How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup (Video Training Course)

Instructor

Sandra Bellamy (AKA Asexualise)

Heteroromantic Asexual, with the Grey (A)rea of kissing. 

My mission is to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right, throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

I have been organising and holding in person asexual meetups for over 5 years. 

Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories on Amazon.

Presenter and daily Chat Show Host at Asexualise My Asexual Life! www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife 

Founder/Trainer at Asexualise Academy, the world's first online Training Centre and School for Asexuals and Asexuality. 

Founder and Blogger at www.asexualise.com

Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London July 2018.

As seen in Daily Mirror, Daily Mail, Femedic, as heard on BBC Radio twice, including the Jeremy Vine Show. As heard on New Inceptions, Freestyle your Life and Straight Up Gay podcasts on ITunes!

 

Reviews

Posted by Sam Manzie on June 19th at 10:59pm

I attended my first asexual meetup around 2015. It was a fairly local one and I had never been to any sort of meetup before, due to being extremely introverted. I decided to give it a go to make some new friends. So I signed up and went along. Unfortunately the meetup did not meet my expectations. There were around 8 or so of us, and several of the others were already acquainted, leaving those of us who were new to the meetups largely ignored and left out, and there was no real organisation. I never attended those meetups again, and decided perhaps it was just that meetups weren't for me. I attended one other meetup organised through someone else the following year, and again felt the organiser was cold and distant. My experience at both of these taught me that those groups tend to have their inner circle of friends, and weren't overly interested in getting to know other people, until maybe they have attended enough meetups to join the circle. I felt disappointed, sad, and let down, that the community I hoped would welcome me, as we are in the minority after all, rejected me. I decided at this time to no longer attend meetups. In 2018, I decided to give asexual meetups another go, as I really wanted to make some friends. I had seen Sandra mention hers a few times, and though we did not know each other she seemed like a nice and caring person from what I had seen, so I decided I would try her meetups. I attended the first one in May 2018, travelling 200 miles to get there. I had spoken to Sandra about the meetup before I attended, and relayed my anxiety and mental health issues, and she was very thoughtful and considerate. She met me at the coach station, took me to the hotel to book in, and took a genuine interest in my well-being and ensured I was comfortable. She showed a great interest in sharing our experiences within the asexual community and also other interests. When we met with the other people who attended, Sandra made sure that everyone was included in the conversation and that people were comfortable and happy with the arrangements, and made everyone feel welcome. As I was booked into the hotel for a few days due to the travel time, she spent the entire weekend with me, getting to know each other. I knew then that I was glad I decided to give meetups another chance. After spending the weekend getting to know one another, we quickly became best friends, and have been extremely close ever since, due to her open, honest, and caring nature. When arranging her meetups, Sandra is attentive to the views and needs of all the attendees, keeps an open mind, and maintains a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. I have attended several of Sandra's meetups and really enjoy the fact that there is plenty of conversation and genuine interest shown in people. I am happy to say that through Sandra's meetups I have made a few valuable lifelong friends, including Sandra and someone else who has similar interests to me. Over the time I have been attending her meetups, we have done a wide array of activities, and I have met quite a number of new people. Several of these I now consider friends and look forward to seeing them each time, and keep in touch with them outside of the meetups. Sandra also arranged a meetup specifically for my birthday in 2019, which spanned several days, and Sandra made plans for the entire duration. It was quite definitely the best birthday I have had. Sandra's meetups just feel more personal and meaningful than others I have attended. I have attended quite a few others now, since attending Sandra's rekindled my interest in them. I haven't had the same experience with other asexual meetups as I have with hers, because she seems to be far more considerate of the needs of the attendees before and during the meetup, and ensures everyone feels included. Having now been to a fair number of meetups organised by various people, I can quite certainly say that I have had far more success, enjoyment, and sense of community at Sandra's, than any of the others. It is important for asexuals to attend meetups because in my experience asexuality itself can lead to feelings of isolation and also that you are broken in some way. I had felt like that my whole life, but having attended Sandra's meetups and getting to know her and other attendees, and making some real friends, I know that is not the case. Through attending meetups I have been exposed to a lot of new ideas and views, and been encouraged to accept myself as I am, and to value myself as a human being. I have also become somewhat more comfortable with being around people, and less anxious in those situations. Attending meetups is a great way to expand your social network and to make new friends in the community who understand the lack of sexual attraction, as the majority of non-asexuals cannot seem to get their head around that. And so it makes you feel less isolated and more accepted for who you are, without having to hide. It is also essential to have more meetup organisers, because it helps to expand the community, and to encourage more asexuals to attend them. Sandra has great insight into organising and holding meetups, in how to get people to attend and to keep coming back, and to make people feel welcomed and part of the community. She is also very good at dealing with different situations that may arise. As I have said, I have been to meetups organised by several different people, and have been made to feel much more cared for, comfortable, and at home, at Sandra's meetups, than others. As well as a general feeling of them being more organised. Which are all a definite must if you want people to continue to attend and to grow your meetups. It is therefore essential for anyone who wants to run successful meetups to get this course.

Posted by Sandra Bellamy on June 24th at 1:48pm

Hi Sam, thanks so much for the ACE review. I was so sorry to hear about your previous bad experience with asexual meetup organisers and meetups. I am thrilled you came to one of mine, despite your previous bad experiences. And that you made a best friend with me for life. It feels so good to have someone who understands me so well, and who genuinely cares about me. It's lovely you made another best friend and other friends for life, at my meetups too. I especially love this: * "Sandra's meetups just feel more personal and meaningful than others I have attended. When arranging her meetups, Sandra is attentive to the views and needs of all the attendees, keeps an open mind, and maintains a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. I have attended several of Sandra's meetups and really enjoy the fact that there is plenty of conversation and genuine interest shown in people. " * I am happy to hear you know I genuinely care about asexuals. I think it makes a huge difference. So glad to give you the best birthday experience ever.

Posted by Andrew on April 16th at 9:28pm

This excellent and comprehensive course walks you through every aspect of hosting your own asexual meetup. Presented by renowned author, trainer and entrepreneur Sandra Bellamy, who has many years experience of running successful asexual meetups. In fact, I have attended many of them myself and very much enjoyed meeting the diverse range of people who attend them. The course gives a live, over the shoulder view of the author planning a real meetup. The engaging videos cover a wide range of topics, your aims for your meetup, choosing the venue, finding people who want to attend, publicising your event on asexual sites and other social media, encouraging people to attend, mistakes to avoid, and looking after the mental health of your attendees, and your own. Also included are many useful resources to download, including a meetup script checklist, multiple scripts for different social media posts and asexual sites, and there is also a bonus list of 156 ideas for things to do at an asexual meetup. This course is suitable both for beginners, and existing organisers who want to expand their meetups. The course was a great investment, and gave me the confidence to grow and develop my own meetups.

Posted by Sandra Bellamy on May 1st at 4:51am

Hi Andy, really happy to hear you loved this comprehensive course so much, and you found it to be a great investment and that it will help you to grow and develop your own meetups. I am also glad to hear you found the resources very useful and you liked the bonus list of 156 ideas for things to do at an asexual meetup, which I know you will put to good use. Looking forward to seeing you at the next meetup.